A “Time Well Spent” survey found that 77% of Grindr users reported feeling regret or unhappiness after opening the app – many people are “still” not able to equate their mental health issues with using the app, and instead think the solution is to medicate.

Most gay apps are not owned by gay people, they are owned by money hungry straight investors who have zero care for the mental health impact of promoting and monetising promiscuity, hypersexualisation. bullying and etc.

These apps INSIST on not verifying members and roll out the red carpet for catfishes and scammers – because it artificially increases user count – which probably feeds into executive bonuses – they couldn’t care less that you are being led on and scammed.

Ambitious people have to avoid these apps or go “headless” to avoid association and career issues in the future.

The culture on these apps says “just block people who just sent you pictures even if its mid conversation”. But this is just so bloody rude – but it’s the culture set by these apps of being ruthless and uncaring and wasting peoples time for sport.

Many people feel gay apps and hookup culture are ok and are doing them no harm – a simple google search shows a cornocopia of studies that link promiscuity to depression and drug use. Many may have sex addictions and may not realise it.

The apps warp mens minds and keeps them in a low energy state, always hungry for sex and never raising their energy above that level in order to to achieve more or stop sexualising people.